Approach & Philosophy
"When we change what we see,
what we see changes."
Dr. Wayne Dyer
Celebrating Unique Characteristics
Integrating knowledge and insights from different frameworks and theories, I use an eclectic approach guided by your child and family’s individual expression. I believe that every child is inherently wired to be curious, imaginative, motivated, and kind, regardless of their diagnosis or differences. From this perspective, we don’t view children as broken or in need of fixing, but as whole and capable individuals whose ability to fully access and express their potential can be shaped by various influences around them. We see and appreciate their uniqueness meeting it as part of life and living.
Our path together will involve discovering the unique characteristics of yourself and your child(ren), learning what this entails for them and your family, and understanding how this insight guides everyone to a place of balance and emotional well-being in the long run.
Striving for Balance
Balance, in this context, means having the capacity to engage in activities that you and your child find meaningful and fulfilling, in a way that honours your unique personalities and forms of self-expression. This might look like being energetic and expressive, reflective and introspective, playful and free-spirited, innovative and outside-the-box, strong-willed and determined, warm and affectionate, or any of the countless ways your child uniquely engages with the world. Balance is not about maintaining a constant state of calm and containment but rather about your child feeling fully present, alive, and in their purest form of themselves.
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Together, we strive to understand what balance looks like for your child—their most authentic state. We also explore the nuances of what might pull them away from that state and how we can gently support their return to equilibrium. At the same time, we recognize that moving in and out of balance is a natural rhythm of life. True well-being is not about achieving perfect stability but about embracing these shifts with flexibility and trust, allowing life’s ebbs and flows to unfold while staying rooted in one’s authentic self.
"Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior."
Robyn Gobbel
Attunement as a Love Language
Attunement is the profound experience of connection that goes beyond words. It’s when someone is fully present with you, deeply listening, and responding in a way that makes you feel truly seen, heard, and valued. It’s the sense of being understood at your core, without judgment or expectation, and feeling safe enough to simply be yourself.
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It’s not about fixing or changing; it’s about meeting you exactly where you are—with compassion, empathy, and unwavering presence. Attunement creates a space where you feel honored, respected, and accepted for all that you are, fostering trust and connection in the most meaningful way. It’s the foundation of authentic relationships and the key to creating an environment where growth, healing, and thriving are possible.
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This is what I want for you as a parent: to feel connected to yourself, your child, and your unique journey. Together, we’ll create space for deeper connection and understanding—for you and your child to feel seen, supported, and celebrated just as you are.​
"Attunement is the felt sense experience of being heard, seen, known, understood, and met where you are. It's the feeling of having someone tuned in to you, the feeling of being safe where you are, and knowing that's welcome here."
@lexyflorentina
Collaborative Relationship
In our work together, we’ll explore how to support your child in embracing and expressing their unique self by building meaningful relationships, creating a nurturing environment, and reflecting on the habits and beliefs that shape our approach.
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Our sessions are grounded in curiosity, creativity, and a judgment-free space where we can learn and grow together. ​
Our connection begins with a conversation. In a 15-20 minute call, you'll have the opportunity to share your thoughts, ask questions, and get a feel for how I work. From there, we’ll discuss how to move forward in a way that feels meaningful and supportive for your family.
Eclectic Approach
My perspectives and approach are shaped by neuroscience, relational science, sensory processing and integration, and the understanding that being human is both a shared and deeply personal experience.
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I believe every child and family is unique, and no single approach will look the same for everyone. Life is full of the unexpected, and this therapeutic process is no different. While we’ll create a vision together, and you’ll have a sense of how it may unfold, it will also evolve in ways we haven’t fully planned—and that’s an intentional part of the journey.